THE CONSTANT COMPANION
After reading through the research provided from the various outlets this week, I settled on taking a deeper dive into Common Sense Media's report entitled Constant Companion: A Week in the Life of a Young Person's Smartphone Use. As a high school teacher, I am keenly aware of the complicated relationship that students have with these devices. As a parent of a 3rd grader and 6th graded, neither of whom have smartphones yet, I struggle with how to handle the many benefits and issues that arise from these devices. So to say that this topic hits close to home is a bit of an understatement; it's something that I think and worry about quite often.
A RITE OF PASSAGE
For the majority of young people getting a smartphone has become a rite of passage in the United States. "According to Common Sense Research, 43% of tweens (ages 8 to 12) and 88% to 95% of teens (age 13 to 18) have their own smartphone." (Rideout et al., 2022; Pew 2022) In fact, nearly half of U.S. children get their first smartphone by age 11. (Rideout et al., 2022) I find these statistics fascininating for a number of reasons. First, I was born in 1982 which technically makes me a Millenial, but I was the fifth of six kids, so I was raised in Gen X house; so I have often thought of myself as what David White would refer to as a visitor when it comes to technology. I did not have a cell phone until I was 20 years old and didn't get a smartphone until I was in my late 20's. Second, my kids are 8 and 12 and neither have smartphone yet. My 12 year old has a Verizon Gizmo, which allows him to make calls to 10 preset contacts and send preprogrammed texts. My wife and I are discussing when is the right time to get him a smartphone. Which leads to the third reason, teaching children appropriate use and proper management of these devices is more important than ever.
DAILY USAGE
Smartphones are an important part of young people's lives. They use them to connect with friends, give their brains a rest, and help them laugh and calm down. The average teenager uses their smartphone for almost four and a half hours per day, but there is a wide range of usage, with some teens using their phones for only a few minutes per day and others using them for over sixteen hours per day. Teens also use their smartphones in a variety of ways. Some teens use them to actively consume content, like watching videos or playing games; while others use them to provide background "buzz" by playing movies, videos, or music while they do other activities. Most teens pick up their phones frequently throughout the day, with a median of 51 times per day. Younger teens tend to pick up their phones less frequently than older teens. This is likely due to the fact that younger teens have more rules or restrictions placed on their smartphone use and are less likely to have peers with smartphones.
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| Image Source: 2023 Constant Companion: A Week in the Life of a Young Person's Smartphone Usage |
NOTIFICATIONS
Teens receive an average of 237 notifications per day, but some receive over 4500. About quarter of notifications arrive during school hours and 5% during school night hours. Teens use different strategies to manage notifications, such as filtering or blovking them, particularly from spam content and favoring notifications of direct messages. Snapchat and Discord send the most notifications, but teens are becoming more aware of the ways in which some apps use algorithms to pull them in with frivolous notifications. Teens are bombarded with notifications theoughout the day, even during school hours and at night. They have to learn how to manage these notifications in order to stay focused and avoid distractions and we as educators and parents have a responsibilty to facilitate this learning.
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| Image Source: 2023 Constant Companion: A Week in the Life of a Young Person's Smartphone Usage |
MANAGING TECHNOLOGY USE
Over two-thirds of 11 to 17 year olds find it difficult to stop using techonoly, use technology to escape from sorrow, and lose out on sleep due to being on their phone of the internet late at night. We as adults need to recognize that this generation of young people haven't been given other technological options to carry out the developmentally appropriate task of connecting with their peers, exploring their identities, or learning about the world in which they live. They have done all of these things with a smartphone in their hand. Therefore, caregivers and parents must strive to support and educate young people about their smartphone use, rather than judging them, through open and honest communication.







